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Top 10 Unique Ways To Get Your Dream Lover

 

 

Everyone needs a shoulder to rest on. But the best is the right lover.  These are the top 10 Unique Ways To Get Your Dream woman or man which you will never regret. No 9 is a real shocker.

 

1. Decide if you really want a dream woman

Top 10 Unique Ways To Get Your Dream Lover
Decide if you really want a dream woman
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A “Total 10” is a woman who’s beautiful inside and out. She’s hot, intelligent, emotionally mature, and in-demand. When it comes to men, she's seen and heard it all. And through it all, she's learned one simple truth: She can have any guy she wants any time she wants — but that's actually great news for you.

Even though a “Total 10” has no problem finding men, she has major problems finding the right man. Become that man and you're golden — but first you should decide if an "in-demand" woman is really the kind of woman you want. If so, go for it.

2. Make a great first impression

The sad fact is, when a guy is trying to meet hot women, the initial conversation usually doesn't feel normal. His body language is strange. He's on his best behaviour and is trying to put his best foot forward. But start off the interaction with a woman the right way, and you'll form a first impression that will cause her to see anything you do from then on as attractive.

This is another reminder that once a woman thinks of you in a particular way, she's likely to think of you in that way for a long time. Start out by acting like a Wussy, and she'll assume that you will always act like one. And you're done.

3. Stop trying so hard to impress

Here's something that might not sound logical: After you make a great first impression, stop trying to impress. Most men immediately sabotage themselves with their overwhelming impulse to impress hot women. They hem and haw. They try to say "cool" things. They act nervous during the conversation. Worst of all, they act like a "wussy."

They don't dare to tease let alone do anything to upset a woman. All of this makes them act unnatural and that kills attraction. So stop trying so hard.

4. Banish your inner wuss

You must avoid sending signals to a beautiful woman that make her reject you and move onto the next guy. These fatal wuss signals say to her: “I'm not comfortable enough around women to just act normal” or “I don't have a lot of experience with attractive women.” Of course, I've just described the ways that about 99.99% of men act when trying to meet hot women.

So become that one guy who doesn't act like a wuss. That alone is enough to make a high-quality woman feel naturally attracted to you.

5. Please yourself

No, not like that. I'm saying that you must decide what you want for yourself. If you want to date regular women, then do it. If you want to be exclusive or date lots of women, then do it. But make the decision based on what you want. Too many guys put a woman they hardly know ahead of themselves. They think: "She's so hot that I'll do anything to be with her. I’ll do whatever she wants." This is a bad move.

When you decide to put aside what you want for your life because you're trying to please a woman, you're doomed to failure. She'll smell it on you right away and run for the hills.

6. Stop thinking that hot women want looks and money

I get tons of e-mails from guys who seem to "have it all." They're rich and famous athletes, celebrities, etc., and they all say the same thing: That if you don't have the right attitude and skills, then looks and money are useless. On the other hand, if you do have the attitude and skills, then wealth and looks aren't that important.

So stop focusing on thinking about not being rich enough or not looking like Brad Pitt and start focusing on deepening your integrity and your understanding of women. Do something every day to step out of your comfort zone, and you can become the kind of man great women find irresistible.

7. Don't chase

I can't say this enough. Beautiful women have men hitting on them all day long. What you have to do to be successful is stand out from that crowd. How do you do it? Let’s say you’re in a university class or a yoga class at your local gym or whatever. Simply sit next to the girl you’re interested in, and then do your best to ignore her for most of the class! Easy. You can handle that, right? Just pretend she’s not even there. Don't look at her, talk to her, etc.

If she says anything to you during the class, answer in a disinterested voice and don't look at her. You'll create mystery and tension because she’ll be wondering why you’re not looking over at her, and this sets the stage for attraction.

8. Just go for it

How basic can things get? You won't get the woman of your dreams until you try. That's why the first thing you need handled is feeling comfortable around attractive women. You need to get to the point where you can walk up to one and start talking to her without turning into an emotional basket case.

That's why I want you to try approaching 25 women over the next week. Just give a compliment and walk away. Say: "Hi, I just wanted to tell you that I think you're beautiful. Have a great day," and walk away. Do this, and guess what? She might even chase after you. But more importantly, you're well on your way to feeling more comfortable and are thus starting to get dates.

9. Once you go for it, be sure to keep it going

Once you can approach and compliment a woman comfortably, learn to keep eye contact with women. Try pausing for three seconds and then say the word "beautiful" while keeping eye contact. If you can do this, you'll have women stop you and try to talk to you as you're walking away.

When you can do this comfortably, try asking her a few casual questions to start a conversation. Ask her if she lives in the area or if she's visiting. Ask her what her name is — simple stuff. See, isn't all this feeling easier already?

10. Get her number and get out

Don't worry about getting a date during your first conversation with a beautiful woman. At this point, just use the three-minute technique to get her e-mail and/or phone number.

Start with a little teasing. Look her in the eyes and say: "So is it true what they say about redheads (or brunettes, etc.)?" She'll say: "What do they say?" You answer: "If you don't know, I'm not going to tell you. But what's your name?" After getting it, say: "I have to run, but I'd like to continue this conversation. Do you have e-mail?" Then hand her your phone as if you fully expect her to enter her info. And then guess what? You just got her number — and soon a date.

 

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